Michael Jackson: a small personal memory
As the world prepares to mourn and celebrate the death of musical talent extraordinaire, Michael Jackson, millions of people have started to share how he impacted their lives and the lives of a generation. Me included. Not since Elvis does the world have an entertainment legacy brand that will be much greater after death than during life...as long as it is managed well, (let's hope, since so many people have had their hands in his life I imagine more will want a piece of him in death).
I grew up with the gloved-one's music finding it irresistible and mesmerizing...finding it impossible not to learn nearly all the words while marveling at his dance skills...(which I sadly tried to but unsuccessfully mimic). I along with millions got to know Michael from a far until I had a short very personal experience a few years back.
Before Lionel Richie became a client, I had the opportunity to meet him for the first time with some friends over brunch at the celeb packed restaurant The Ivy. Lionel arrived very late to our small gathering on the cell phone intently listening to "someone" at great length. Even after Lionel sat down with us...some 15 minutes later...we still hadn't been formally introduced because he was still on the phone.
Noticing our growing discomfort with what appeared to be the "rudeness" of staying on the phone as food arrived, Lionel put the phone on mute and handled it towards me...but saying first..."it's Michael he wants my advice and I have to listen". Michael? I inquired. Michael Jackson he responded. And with that Lionel handed me the phone for a very brief time. I listened as the King of Pop sadly and soulfully expressed his love for people and how he was misunderstood. This was the time of his first court case for child molestation and those close to Michael like Lionel were making themselves available to be there for him in his time of need....as many wouldn't listen to him as the world began to shift their opinion of the K.O.P. from honor and worship to disdain and disgust.
Lionel, who had co-written and produced "We are the World" the hugely successful charity song with Michael, was very worried about him self-destructing at that time, understandably. There were so many people in his life trying to tell him what to do, we all talked about how difficult it might be for him to get out of this situation unscathed. He settled out of court with his accuser but public opinion was not favorable.
After that time Michael seemed to become a Howard Hughes type and the world became further confused by his behaviors and his popularity waned. Additional litigation and money woes didn't help his image either.
But alas on the eve of his highly touted come-back tour he leaves us for good. Now, despite his many behavioral and money issues, which will never go completely away, the world has shifted its opinion and now is taking the time to celebrate the genius that he was and the impact his work has had on the world for the past 50 years.
Thank you to Lionel Richie for giving me a memory like no other.
Watching out for you everyday.
Eli




I also grew up with MJ, I've been to one of his concerts and it feels that is a part of me that died. Fortunately, I still have his music!
Posted by: Torsten Relation | July 13, 2009 at 05:37 AM